Saturday, 21 February 2015

Drifting away

Hey guys,

So you might be getting bored now of my advice blogs as they are all related to my life. And if so I'm sorry but these will actually help someone who is going through a hard time. 

This blog is about drifting away from your best friend. I never really thought this could happen but it did and now know that it can happen!

So i had this best friend that I made when I moved primary schools and we were really close we both lived far from school but close to ech other so it worked out.

 After school I would get the bus home and her mom would take her home and I would get changed and ride to her house nearly everyday after school. We would sit there and gossip for hours on end. Now you see why i never thought we would drift apart

But then we moved to high school. We both went to the same high school in case you were wondering.but we were put in separate classes and only had one class together. 

Then she met a different person who was in nearly all of the same classes together and we sort of drifted away!

I never noticed this at first until now when I am laid in bed thinking about life like I bet most of you do.

I know this is ment to be advice but they isn't really any advice that works for drifting apart friends. Exept dong try to hard or you will be the one who gets hurt.

Bye xx

Real friends ?

Hey guys,

Today I will be writing about real and fake friends. Sorry in advance for any mistakes that I make because I am currently writing this at twelve o'clock because the idea popped into my head. So I beg we have all had trouble at one point in our life or even now off knowing who are your real friends and who are your fake friends.

The people that are the kindest to you and remember everything you tell them can still be fake friends. I will take my life as an example, I'm friends with this girl and I tell her everything and she remembers it so I thought if she remembers everything I tell her she must be a real friend but I was wrong! 

I found this out when I got in a fight(I never get in fights but this fight was for a good reason). When I got put in isolation for 2 days rumoured started to occur about me and the girl I had the fight with. So I simply asked this friend a favour and asked her to sort the rumours out and tell people they weren't true. Then she replied and said no because she had sorted things out with the girl.( the fight had started because I was sticking up for my friend when the person i got in a fight with was being mean to her)

Correct me if I am wrong here but most people would stick by there friend and help them out when they need help because they helped you out. Or at least that is what I would do. 

So I then turned to my other friend who I aren't that close with we are just sort of friends but not close or anything. And j was surprised with her answer after my friend who j am close with said no as she said yes. I then found out the next day that she had sorted out the rumours and they were no more rumours about me!

So even the people who seem the nicest can be the most horrible and selfish people you will ever know. And the people who you are the furthest with can become your rock.(someone who helps you through hard times ) 

Byexx