Spots!

Hey, 

Spots everybody gets them at some point in there life but they are annoying and you want rid of them as fast as possible. So I'm going to tell you the dos and don't of getting rid of a spot.

Do's

-Use clearislil and other spot vanishing products 

Don't 

- use toothpaste as it discolours your skin

-use any remedies of the Internet most of the time this makes them worse

Bye xx

Panic Attacks

Hey,

So since a lot of my friends are now having panic attacks and more and more people are coming out and saying that they have them now but they don't know what to do so i thought i would right this blog for you.

My first piece of advice is to not fight it. Fighting it will only make it worse and your panic attack will last longer.

You may also want to think of 5 happy moments of your life this will help you de-stress.

My other piece of advice is to try yoga, yoga is known to help people de-stress and gather there thoughts.

Hope this helped
                               Bye xxx

Getting judged

Hey guys,

Recently I'v been getting nervous in crowds, in class and even with my friends. I have never really thought anything of it I just put it down to having low self esteem and confidence. Then I realised it was more then that I used to love reading in my head and aloud but now it comes to school and it's my turn to read I get so worried and stressed I feel like crying. Thinking that everyone is judging me like everyone in the class room are judges that judge everything that is bad about you and pick in it. This may seem like I'm over reacting but I'm not I have tried everything I know of reading aloud to myself making new friends ect but I don't know how to get my confidence back.

I guess my confidence was knocked majority when I got bullied in year 3 till year 5 but I haven't been able to build it back up not even a little bit. Sometimes I feel like not even my friends know who i am truly and I know this sound bad bits it's true. I feel like my friends judge me and talk about me behind my back. 

You should feel confident around your friends but i don't. You should be able to fling some clothes on to go meet them but when I meet them I'v chosen for hours on end what I'm wearing and my makeup. This is when I get asked to meet them.

You see another reasons why I think my confident isn't building back up is because they ask each other to hang round or go to town but not me. It almost feels like there embarrassed to be seen me. Like they think not aloud to be seen with her she got fat when she was getting bullied and still hasn't lost the weight she put on. I know this sounds dreadful but this is how I feel.

Bye xx

Question- do any of you guys feel this way?

Quote- feel good in your own skin!

Drifting away

Hey guys,

So you might be getting bored now of my advice blogs as they are all related to my life. And if so I'm sorry but these will actually help someone who is going through a hard time. 

This blog is about drifting away from your best friend. I never really thought this could happen but it did and now know that it can happen!

So i had this best friend that I made when I moved primary schools and we were really close we both lived far from school but close to ech other so it worked out.

 After school I would get the bus home and her mom would take her home and I would get changed and ride to her house nearly everyday after school. We would sit there and gossip for hours on end. Now you see why i never thought we would drift apart

But then we moved to high school. We both went to the same high school in case you were wondering.but we were put in separate classes and only had one class together. 

Then she met a different person who was in nearly all of the same classes together and we sort of drifted away!

I never noticed this at first until now when I am laid in bed thinking about life like I bet most of you do.

I know this is ment to be advice but they isn't really any advice that works for drifting apart friends. Exept dong try to hard or you will be the one who gets hurt.

Bye xx

Real friends ?

Hey guys,

Today I will be writing about real and fake friends. Sorry in advance for any mistakes that I make because I am currently writing this at twelve o'clock because the idea popped into my head. So I beg we have all had trouble at one point in our life or even now off knowing who are your real friends and who are your fake friends.

The people that are the kindest to you and remember everything you tell them can still be fake friends. I will take my life as an example, I'm friends with this girl and I tell her everything and she remembers it so I thought if she remembers everything I tell her she must be a real friend but I was wrong! 

I found this out when I got in a fight(I never get in fights but this fight was for a good reason). When I got put in isolation for 2 days rumoured started to occur about me and the girl I had the fight with. So I simply asked this friend a favour and asked her to sort the rumours out and tell people they weren't true. Then she replied and said no because she had sorted things out with the girl.( the fight had started because I was sticking up for my friend when the person i got in a fight with was being mean to her)

Correct me if I am wrong here but most people would stick by there friend and help them out when they need help because they helped you out. Or at least that is what I would do. 

So I then turned to my other friend who I aren't that close with we are just sort of friends but not close or anything. And j was surprised with her answer after my friend who j am close with said no as she said yes. I then found out the next day that she had sorted out the rumours and they were no more rumours about me!

So even the people who seem the nicest can be the most horrible and selfish people you will ever know. And the people who you are the furthest with can become your rock.(someone who helps you through hard times ) 

Byexx